Perhaps not all mothers regret profoundly their children leaving home - even while appreciating that their children, when of age, must make their own way in the world, aided by the nurturing they received in a loving home, imbued with the values that they inherit witnessing their father and their mother making decisions, interacting with each other - but this one most certainly did.

All parents wish for the best for their children's futures.  And that best really means they hope their children will find satisfaction in their lives, and if they're fortunate enough, a lifetime partner with whom they may share the experiences of life.

We have been fortunate in having children whose intelligence and curiosity, determination and strength of character have resulted in individuals whose life- and career-paths have surprised and gratified us. 

We were saddened that only one of our children found a lifetime partner. They two share a marriage bond and a much deeper and more profound bond of mutual respect and care for one another.  Each of them is accomplished in their own areas of interest and professionalism, some of which intersects.

For the remaining two, lasting interpersonal bonds have simply not occurred.  And because their father and I know how important it is for people to have love and the comfort of care, both given and received in their lives on an ongoing, intimate basis, we are saddened.